5 Romantic Sexual Fantasies to Try With a Gay Escort
Men are big dreamers when it comes to sex. They fantasize about everything from rescuing nude damsels to getting their way in bed with a dominating femme.
Many men like the idea of sex in risky locations (locker rooms, bathrooms, and parks). Others have kink fantasies such as basic impact play or spanking.
1. Romantic Seduction
Romantic sexual fantasies are a normal and healthy part of human sexuality. They can also be an opportunity to subvert gender roles and explore a new side of one’s partner. “Sexual desires and fantasies are not just for straight people,” says sex educator Sayant. “They can be for people of all sexual orientations.”
Gay men have romantic sexual fantasies just as much as heterosexual men and women. These fantasies often involve threesomes and group sex. They may include sex with friends, strangers, or famous people. They can also involve bondage, discipline, dominance, and submission.
Kink is also a popular sexual fantasy for gay people. It involves activities such as spanking, flogging, and more. A recent survey by Lovers sexual wellness brand and retailer found that people of all ages and gender identities report wanting to do these activities. It’s important to discuss these desires with a trusted partner and take it slow when exploring kink. It’s also important to always use proper protection and follow local laws around sex and nudity. Lastly, it’s a good idea to ask a licensed sex worker for assistance with these activities.
2. Lingerie Seduction
Whether they read erotica, watch sexy movies, or see sexy art, men, and women often use these things as inspiration for their sexual fantasies. Role-plays that touch on power dynamics like teacher and student, boss and employee, and doctor, and patient are popular fantasy ideas, too.
Even a clean show with a jaw-dropping BJ can turn a man on. That’s why binding his woman to the bed with handcuffs, tearing off her clothes, and exploring her body with his toys is one of the most common male fantasies.
Playing a game that encourages you to discuss your sexual fantasies with your partner can be an excellent way to start this conversation. Try Wonderlust’s Mindful Intimacy Deck to get the ball rolling and then delve into a deep discussion. The more you talk, the more you can discover what turns you on. This will help you make sexy, intimate connections with your partner.
3. Food Play
Food play can take sexual surrender to a whole new level. From licking syrup from your partner’s back to sipping champagne during foreplay, edible erotics can be a deliciously sensual experience. It’s also a great way to explore your kinkiest fantasies. “Playing in or with something that’s taboo or forbidden heightens arousal for many people,” Morgan says. “For example, exhibitionism is a turn-on for some people,” and that includes things like spying on your neighbors getting it on on the beach or watching a couple kiss in public.
While it’s completely normal to have sexual fantasies, it’s equally important to make sure that you actually want to act them out. If you aren’t sure, try talking about them with your partner in a low-pressure way, such as a card game or a video chat.
If acting them out is still too daunting, you can always explore your fantasies through less threatening media, like porn or written or audio erotica. Ultimately, you’ll have more fun exploring your desires if you feel confident in what you’re doing and are with a supportive partner.
4. Fireman Seduction
Whether it’s a fireman in uniform or a lifeguard in a swimsuit, this classic fantasy is a turn-on for many. It’s not hard to see why. Guys love it because of the power differential, and women get turned on by the idea of a big, strong guy coming to their rescue—and then seducing them.
If you don’t have the budget to hire a professional, try dressing up in a costume yourself and then doing some role-play at home. Or, you can even scout out a local event or nude beach to have this experience in real life.
This one’s another classic, and while it nudges closer to a rape fantasy than some of the others, there is something inherently sexual about someone breaking into your house. It’s also a great way to add a little mystery to your sexual encounters. It’s an easy, low-pressure way to add a new dimension to your kinky adventures. And, of course, it’s a good excuse to bring out the mask. Just be sure to use a clean mask to avoid contamination.
5. Rescue Seduction
The Pampered Prince or Princess is a guy who fantasizes about being rescued by a woman. They want someone to take care of them, and give them everything they could ever want. This type of guy is easily recognizable by their romantic style of clothing, home decor, and choice in movies. To seduce this guy, you have to keep up the show by providing him with lots of entertainment, color, and spectacle.
A lot of guys have fantasies about being sexy with someone while they are being escorted through airport security or being rectally examined on a cold chrome table. This is a great role-play idea that can be very intense and turn on a guy.
The reason why many gay men choose to use escort services is that they can live out their true fantasies in a safe, controlled, and open-minded environment. This is especially helpful for those who aren’t ready to commit to a serious relationship and may need an extra sexual outlet. These five sexual fantasies are just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to what an escort can help you accomplish.
